A talented chef has shocked her followers by revealing she’s into BDSM – and classifies herself as a fetish “brat”
Chef Cândida Batista from Rio de Janeiro in Brazil, opened up to her social media followers about her fetishes and taught them more about “play-styles” in the community.
The 41-year-old, who now lives and works in Vienna, has more than 25,000 followers on Instagram.
Cândida, who has been the cover model for Playboy, said that she’s a “submissive” who likes to be dominated and trussed up in handcuffs.
A submissive is someone who likes to give full control of the sex act to their dominant partner.
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She explained: “Trusting your partner when you are in a vulnerable physical and emotional situation is an act of surrender, which in my view turns out to be a more intimate and intense connection than so-called traditional relationship.
“Serving and giving oneself to the extreme as a sub, and having the utmost care for the emotional needs of the partner being domineering, is what I find most beautiful considering the confidence required for things to work in this type of relationship.”
Contrary to popular belief, Cândida says BDSM has nothing to do with violence.
She said: “It has nothing to do with violence, as some people imagine, and being consensual is fundamental!”
Cândida posted a series of sexy snaps online alongside her cheeky revelation to titillate her fans.
In the photos, the chef and model posed sensually in BDSM lingerie and fishnets.
The chef also unveiled that she is a particular type of submissive – a type the fetish community call a “brat”.
She explained that this means she’s a submissive who likes to push the limits of the dominant partner’s rules and act bratty, brazen or playful.
Cândida said: “For my part, I can guarantee that I am more brat than sub.”
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