You might think you know it all but there’s a lot a woman wants in bed that she may keep to herself.
Previously, Nadia Bokody outlined three simple ways to get a woman “super” turned on which involves a lot of talking before getting naked.
The sexpert also revealed why women don’t speak up in the bedroom in an 18-minute long clip she made to help people’s sex lives.
Now, the Australian journalist has released yet another YouTube video on her channel which reveals the best sex positions for women and what gets them really turned on.
She said: “It’s no secret that it takes a woman a little bit more to get her to orgasm during sex than it is for a guy.”
After her introduction, Nadia shares her five top tips for getting your partner turned on more during sex.
1. Create anticipation
Nadia said creating anticipation is one thing that everyone tends to skip.
She explained: “We tend to rush them or cancel them out when we’ve been in long relationships, I’m talking about touching her over her tops and kissing her which creates more anticipation before getting naked.
“Really try to make a point of making time to do all those things before getting naked and having sex.”
2. Wetter is better
The sexpert advises using lube during sexual activity because “women are not human waterfalls”.
She continued: “It’s actually possible for a woman to be super turned on and to be not wet at all, because of hormones and ageing there are so many things that influences a woman’s ability to produce lubrication.
“Women need to be very wet to enjoy sex. So if you begin to penetrate her before she’s wet I can guarantee to you she’s not comfortable. My recommendation is to use lube and keep a tube next to the bed.”
3. Train yourself to go longer
Women obviously don’t like it when a man finishes so quick, but there is a way to train yourself to go longer without taking medication.
Nadia suggests Prolong, a handy little device that men can use on their penises to masturbate which helps you to train out of premature ejaculation.
She said: “It’s helpful because women need men to go longer and sometimes going longer is harder but you can’t.
“Men who used this device were trained to go 8x longer than what they did before. If you’ve had issues with premature ejaculation or lasting longer then this device is going to do a lot of wonders.”
4. Get in position
There are certain positions which make it easier for a woman to orgasm and they’re not always the ones that you as a man would default to.
Nadia revealed: “One of the best sex positions [for a woman] is missionary, which not many people like because they see it as boring but I personally love it as I can look into their eyes and it’s passionate.
“I recommend doing missionary at least for 5-10 minutes during sex because your pubic bone is going to grind with hers and that will create friction on her clitoris because 70-80% of women need this in order to have a chance at an orgasm.”
The sexpert then recommended the woman to go on top for an extra bit of thrill and trying a small handheld clitoral toy to hold on her clitoris.
5. Involve your lips
You’re not going to be able to read her mind, so don’t get frustrated when you don’t know what she wants.
Nadia explained: “If she doesn’t know what she wants definitely start by watching porn together and go through watching different things that you think might be sexy and then ask her.
“Use the porn to stimulate ideas and a catalyst for ideas. So if you put all these into consideration then she will reach O-town in no time so do try them out.”